Welcome to day 5!

๐—œ ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜€๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฎ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ:

I wasโ€ฆ


Welcome to day 4!

Personal growth and healing has always been important to me. As you can see on this picture I started reading books and listening to audio programs from a young age (sometimes all night!), reading all of the schoolโ€™s encyclopaedias and writing a long essay on the universe by the time I was 12.

From a young age I loved personal growth

But my true healing journey began when I was 16 years young and saw my mother committing suicide at home. In that moment when I saw her I felt so hopeless of not being able to help her and angry with doctors andโ€ฆ


๐Ÿ“ ๐–๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐“๐จ ๐’๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐’๐ž๐ž๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ง๐ ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Œ๐ž๐š๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ 

Welcome to day 3!

A popular concept in personal development is โ€œ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆโ€. The basis around this is not really true and can keep you stuck for years as a โ€˜seekerโ€™ archetype.

You donโ€™t โ€œfindโ€ your purpose out there. Youโ€™re always on purpose, but it may be clouded with judgments, fear, subordinations and distractions. Once you have cleared all of that and realise what it is for you, you have ๐™™๐™ž๐™จ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™š๐™™ your purpose.

In addition to the unique purposes that you have, you have 3 main purposes for your life:


๐Ÿ“ ๐–๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐“๐จ ๐’๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐’๐ž๐ž๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ง๐ ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Œ๐ž๐š๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ 

Over the next 5 days, Iโ€™d love to share some of my experience of turning your Seeking into Finding.

Welcome to day 2!

Have you ever been to a seminar and never applied what you learned? Have you ever bought a book and just put it on your bookshelf? Do you know what to do to make change but you canโ€™t seem to stay focused?

I can really relate.

And then the blame cycle starts:

๐˜–๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ด, ๐˜ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฏ. ๐˜š๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ? ๐˜ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ. โ€ฆ


๐Ÿ“ ๐–๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐“๐จ ๐’๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐’๐ž๐ž๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ง๐ ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐…๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Œ๐ž๐š๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ 

Over the next 5 days, Iโ€™d love to share some of my experience of turning your Seeking into Finding!

$๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ‘,๐Ÿ”๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ•

This is the amount of money I have spent in personal development up until today in 2021.

Iโ€™ve travelled the world searching for the โ€˜answerโ€™ and the โ€˜holy grailโ€™ to my problems. I thought that there must be a โ€˜secretโ€™ that will solve ALL of my pain, depression and other negative emotions and circumstances that happened to me and to create meaning in my life.

You may not have spent asโ€ฆ


Recently I published a book with my mother called โ€œThe Whole Inside Usโ€. My mother became suicidally depressed soon after my sister was born. She started to receive flashbacks from her childhood about her being sexually abused by her father and her brother. For years and years she has put these painful memories deep inside her, which wanted to come out now.

On one of our many trips to South America

My motherโ€™s memories were met by the medical profession with medication, stigma and even electroshock therapy. โ€œJust forget about it, it has been so long ago!โ€ Some doctors suggested. The more medication they put in my mother, theโ€ฆ


Do you hate your manager? Do you have Monday morning blues, TGIFโ€™s and week-freaking-ends? I know how you feel and this article is for you, because I used to feel the same way you do and have had my fair share of โ€œhorrible bossesโ€. This WILL cost you a lot of energy, motivation and drive. It is time to โ€œunhate your managerโ€ and in this article I will share with you how.

Why do people hate their manager?

Whilst there are many reasons why people hate their boss, here are the top 3 reasons.

1. Their boss is incompetent

Theโ€ฆ


Back in Feb 2020, right before the global lockdown I was travelling to the beautiful country of Taiwan. My life was a bit of a mess back than. I was often angry at the world; with my unfair manager, with the people I met and the dates I went on, but frankly I was mostly upset and disappointed in myself for the place I was in.

After this trip to Taiwan I had to fly back to London, to go back to my 9โ€“5 job. Coming back to work that Monday, everything was the same. โ€ฆ


A word that is often used in personal development is happiness. Countless books have been written on how to be happy, how to be happier and on how to be the happiest that you have ever been.

People often get happiness confused with another feeling called โ€œpleasureโ€. The media and advertising industry have done a great job in making people believe that happiness equals pleasure. From my experience this is a lie that set people up to experience tremendous long-term pain and unhappiness in their lives.

Many advertisements for products that are not that good for you and bring youโ€ฆ


Youโ€™re not alone. The reason that many people start their own business and quit their jobs is because they want to have more freedom. Freedom could look something like this:

Howeverโ€ฆ

Bart Milatz

Self-Empowerment Mentor travelling the world meeting and empowering like-minded people. Sharing in stories of struggle and success

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